Help leaving domestic violence in Missouri
We've found 10 places in Missouri for people leaving an abuser, mostly in St. Louis, Kansas City and Springfield, and 5 that serve the whole state. Our volunteers haven't confirmed these yet, so a quick call ahead is worth it. Most of them help with safety & protection (4), shelter & housing (4) and legal help (4).
Places in Missouri
Missouri Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
Statewide coalition that maintains a searchable directory of every domestic and sexual violence program in Missouri. It does not run a crisis line itself; use the directory or regional map to find the shelter or advocate nearest you, or call the National DV Hotline at 800-799-7233 any hour.
United Way 211 Missouri
Free information and referral line covering all of Missouri and Illinois. A specialist looks up shelter beds, food pantries, utility help, and treatment openings in a database of thousands of nonprofits and connects you by phone, text, or chat.
Bureau of Vital Records
Issues certified Missouri birth and death certificates. You can order by mail or online, visit the Jefferson City lobby by appointment, or walk into one of 115 local public health offices around the state. Identification is required to receive a record.
Missouri Nondriver ID
A state nondriver identification card costs $24 and is good for up to six years; a nondriver ID issued for voting purposes is free. Apply at any Missouri license office with proof of identity, lawful status, Social Security number, and Missouri address.
Family Support Division Benefits (myDSS)
Apply for SNAP food benefits, MO HealthNet (Medicaid), Temporary Assistance, and child care subsidy in one place. Applications, document uploads, and status checks are online at myDSS.mo.gov; interviews are done by phone and a statewide information line answers questions.
Legal Services of Eastern Missouri
Free civil lawyers for low-income people in 21 eastern Missouri counties, including eviction defense, protective orders through the Lasting Solutions family law unit, public benefits appeals, consumer debt, and immigration. Interpreters are arranged if you ask on the first call.
Safe Connections
St. Louis crisis helpline and counseling center for adult and teen survivors of relationship violence and sexual assault. Licensed therapists provide individual therapy at no cost, and the helpline can be called or texted at any hour.
Rose Brooks Center
Kansas City domestic violence agency with emergency shelter, an on-site clinic, pet shelter, court and police advocacy, therapy, and housing programs. A shelter advocate answers the hotline around the clock.
Legal Aid of Western Missouri
Free civil legal help across 40 western Missouri counties from offices in Kansas City, Independence, St. Joseph, Joplin, and Warrensburg. Cases include protection orders, evictions, public benefits, municipal court defense, and immigration.
Harmony House
Springfield's domestic violence shelter, offering emergency housing for survivors and their children plus outreach case management for those who stay elsewhere. Advocates answer the emergency line and a web chat.
National lines that work in Missouri
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988 for any mental health or substance use crisis. Available to anyone in any program.
Lifeline free phone program
Free or discounted phone and service for people on Medicaid, SNAP, SSI, or low income. Apply online or through a carrier.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7 confidential help for anyone affected by domestic violence. Advocates connect you to local shelters and legal help.