Help leaving domestic violence in Hawaii
We've found 9 places in Hawaii for people leaving an abuser, mostly in Honolulu and Wailuku, and 6 that serve the whole state. Our volunteers haven't confirmed these yet, so a quick call ahead is worth it. Most of them help with safety & protection (4), legal help (4) and family & kids (3).
Places in Hawaii
Hawaii State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Statewide coalition of Hawaii's domestic violence programs. It does not run a shelter or hotline itself, but its Find Help page routes survivors to the member program on their island. Call the office for referrals or training requests.
Domestic Violence Action Center
Oahu's main DV advocacy agency, with a confidential helpline, court accompaniment, risk assessment, safety planning, and legal representation. Services are open to cis, trans, nonbinary and gender-nonconforming survivors; outreach reaches immigrant and ethnic communities.
AUW 211 Hawaii
Hawaii's only statewide information and referral line, with a database of more than 1,400 agencies and 4,000 programs. Specialists help with shelter, food, rent and utility aid, SNAP prescreening, DV, mental health and legal referrals on every island.
Legal Aid Society of Hawaii
Free civil legal help for low-income residents statewide: landlord-tenant and eviction, family law and protective orders, domestic violence, human trafficking, public benefits, and immigration through the Hawaii Immigrant Justice Center. Offices in Honolulu, Hilo, Kona, Wailuku, Lihue, Molokai and Lanai, but no walk-in intake.
Women Helping Women
Maui County's domestic violence agency since 1977, with a 24-hour crisis hotline, confidential shelter, a Transitions housing program, children's services, help filing temporary restraining orders, and offices in West Maui, Hana and Lanai. Serves women, men and children.
Office of Health Status Monitoring, Vital Records
Where to get a certified Hawaii birth certificate, needed for a state ID, benefits and employment. Order online statewide or visit the Oahu office at City Financial Tower; neighbor island residents go through their District Health Office. Divorce records are no longer held here as of February 2026.
State ID and Driver's License
Oahu's driver licensing centers issue the Hawaii state ID card ($40, valid eight years) by appointment through AlohaQ. Bring originals or certified copies proving legal presence, legal name, date of birth and residential address; a temporary paper ID is issued and the card is mailed in four to five weeks.
Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP)
Hawaii's food stamp program. Apply online, by mail or by dropping a paper form at a processing center; DHS then schedules an interview. Gross income limit is 130% of poverty (200% under broad-based categorical eligibility), with a $1,989 monthly limit for one person as of October 2026.
Med-QUEST (Hawaii Medicaid)
Hawaii's Medicaid program, called QUEST Integration. Apply through the KOLEA online eligibility portal, then choose a health plan. Covers medical, behavioral health and substance use treatment for low-income adults and children.
National lines that work in Hawaii
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988 for any mental health or substance use crisis. Available to anyone in any program.
Lifeline free phone program
Free or discounted phone and service for people on Medicaid, SNAP, SSI, or low income. Apply online or through a carrier.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7 confidential help for anyone affected by domestic violence. Advocates connect you to local shelters and legal help.